How to Encourage Independent Play in Toddlers (With the Best Toys For Independent Play)

Independent play is when toddlers entertain themselves safely and creatively without constant adult involvement. To encourage it, set up a safe and stimulating play space, offer open-ended toys, establish a consistent routine, and build up solo playtime gradually.

Introduction

At Play Forward, we believe play is more than fun—it’s how children learn, grow, and discover who they are.

If you're wondering how to get your toddler to enjoy playing on their own (without screens or constant direction), you're not alone. Independent play is a powerful tool for building imagination, patience, and problem-solving skills, all while giving parents a little breathing room too.

In this guide, you’ll learn:

• What independent play really is
• How to encourage it with simple, effective strategies
• Which toys spark the most focused, joyful solo play

Every tip is backed by child development research and inspired by real parents like you.

What Is Independent Play?

Independent play refers to time when toddlers engage in play on their own, without direct adult interaction. This doesn’t mean you leave them completely alone, but rather that they guide their play themselves.

Examples of independent play include:

• Stacking blocks
• Playing pretend with dolls or cars
• Exploring textures with sensory toys

Key Benefits of Independent Play:

• Cognitive growth: Builds attention span, problem-solving, and memory
• Emotional development: Fosters confidence and resilience
• Social readiness: Encourages self-regulation and patience
• Parental relief: Gives caregivers time to recharge

 Create a Yes Space

Make a child-safe zone with soft rugs, reachable shelves, and favorite toys within view. Think low stress, low clutter.

2. Offer Open-Ended, Montessori-Inspired Toys

Toys that don’t “tell” your child what to do allow for creativity. These are ideal:

• Busy Buttons: Hands-on activity board that builds fine motor skills while inviting solo exploration
• Build N Drive Sets: Combines storytelling and construction play
• Stack + Sort Board: Introduces sorting, sequencing, and spatial awareness

3. Keep Routines Consistent

Build in 15–30 minutes of quiet, solo play into your daily rhythm—after snack or before nap is ideal.

4. Stay Nearby, Not Involved

Let your child know you're present and available, but let them lead. Avoid jumping in unless they ask.

5. Rotate Toys Weekly

Swap out a few toys every 7–10 days. Fewer, well-loved toys equal deeper focus and less overwhelm.

6. Model Independent Behavior

Read a book or doodle while they play. When kids see you doing your own thing, they learn it's okay to do theirs too.

How to Encourage Independent Play in Toddlers

1. Set Up a Safe, Inviting Play Area

• Choose a child-safe, clutter-free space
• Make toys easy to access and age-appropriate
• Include soft rugs, child-sized furniture, and baskets

2. Offer Open-Ended Toys

Toys without strict rules promote creativity and problem-solving. Think:

• Wooden blocks
• Stacking cups
• Pretend kitchen tools
• Animal figurines

3. Create a Predictable Routine

• Schedule independent play at the same time each day (e.g., after snack)
• Routine helps toddlers know what to expect—and when to expect your full attention again

4. Start Small

• Begin with 5–10 minutes of solo play
• Gradually increase as your toddler’s comfort grows
• Stay nearby but not involved

5. Be Patient and Supportive

• Don’t rush in to “fix” boredom
• If they struggle, gently guide with questions like, “What else could the doll do?”

6. Rotate Toys Weekly

Fewer, rotated toys = more focused play

• Swap out sets every week to keep things fresh and reduce overwhelm

7. Model Independent Activities

Let your child see you enjoying quiet, independent tasks like reading, sketching, or journaling.

 Best Toys for Independent Play (Curated by Play Forward)

Read more: The Best Sensory Toys For Autism

Tips from Experts & Parents

DO:

• Praise effort, not just outcome:
  “You played all by yourself for 10 minutes! That’s awesome.”
• Keep it low-pressure and fun
• Use a visual timer if needed

DON’T:

• Expect long playtimes right away
• Interrupt when your toddler is focused
• Rely on screen time as a substitute for play

Read more: Fun Fine Motor Skills Activities